LOVE IS IN THE AIR
When Cupid strikes his bow, be prepared. Want you to rock this romantic occasion and have the best Valentine’s Day ever? Whether you are dating, in a long term relationship or a solid commitment or looking for love, there’s a dozen or more things you can do to make love happen and ramp up the romance.
1. IT’S A BALANCING ACT. Check your ego at the door, but keep your self-esteem in a healthy place. Not always easy to balance. Make him feel important by showering him with praise and offering him the moral support he needs to help him thrive. Meantime, treat yourself with love and respect….and attend to your personal and professional needs, too. It makes for a healthy and stable base for any relationship
2 DINNER FOR TWO, FANCY DRESS REQUIRED . Whether having dinner at home or planning a romantic interlude at a favorite restaurant, take it up a notch. Go from housewife to hot wife and surprise him by ditching the denim and lavishing yourself in lace, leather or silk. Can’t find comfort unless it’s jeans? Get sexy and trade everyday blue for sexy looking red, and your new WOW factor.
3. TENDER IS THE NIGHT. Surprise him with an unexpected act of kindness instead of a costly gift. Thoughtfulness is tops….and your attentiveness will go a long way in showing him you care
4. JUST THE TWO OF YOU. Even if you have kids, turn the talk to the two of you during this special time…and take the tension out of his day. The family matters can be suspended for a few hours…..there will be plenty to solve in the coming days but refocus on his needs. Text him at work and interject an endearing message as part of the 140 characters
5. GET READY FOR ROMANCE. According to the Washington Post’s Report on Black Women, while black women covet romance, black men crave it more…..so starting the the mood a few days in advance. Make romance a priority right down to your music playlist, aromatic home fragrance, home-baked goodies and more.
6. FROM SERIOUS TO SEXY SIREN. Look like the siren that caught his eye years, months or weeks ago. Make the transformation from everyday to extraordinary
Find out how in our next blog available this weekend for your reading pleasure. This blog is the first in a series of three Valentine’s Day special edition luv blogs written to share with your closest of friends. LOVE to hear your thoughts.
PS Love tip of the month: Never go to bed angry, be sure you kiss and make-up
xoxo
Your friends at Black Opal Beauty